Cemeteries allow us to reconnect with our past
LAFAYETTE, CA (Mar. 7, 2025) — Families visit cemeteries for many reasons. Sometimes, it’s because a loved one has recently passed, and they find comfort or closure in being near them. Other times, it’s an act of love – placing flowers for an anniversary, cleaning a headstone or simply tending to a sacred space.
Many visit to reconnect with their family’s legacy, bringing their children or grandchildren to share stories of their ancestors and keep their memories alive.
Every year, we see countless families gathering to honor veterans on Memorial Day, celebrate mothers and fathers on their respective days, observe Día de los Muertos, pay homage during Ching Ming and visit on other special holidays. These moments of remembrance are powerful, bringing families together across generations.
I once helped a man in the later years of his life who hadn’t visited his father’s grave in decades. He had moved away long ago, but on that particular day, he felt an undeniable need to return. He made the journey into town simply to reflect and pay his respects one last time. As he stood at his father’s resting place, he recounted stories from his childhood, his father’s wisdom and the lasting impact he had on his life.
Another time, a young woman visited after graduating from college. Her mother had passed away when she was just a baby, and growing up without her, she had never truly experienced closure. That day, she stood at her mother’s gravesite and wept – a release of every emotion, every milestone and every moment in life when she had longed for her mother’s presence.
More than headstones
I’ll never forget the day I helped someone locate a loved one’s grave, only to discover that person was one of my own favorite teachers – someone I hadn’t known was laid to rest here. By sheer coincidence, I was the one guiding him and his wife to visit his sister.
As we stood there, reminiscing about her life and accomplishments, we took a picture together, capturing a moment that felt deeply meaningful.
Cemeteries hold more than headstones; they hold love, memories and the unbreakable bonds between generations. They hold stories.
If you’re considering your cemetery options, I encourage you to start the preplanning process and begin the conversation about your wishes. We’re here to answer your questions and provide the guidance you need every step of the way.
Call Oakmont Memorial Park and Mortuary at 925-935-3311 to schedule a free consultation and receive a complimentary planning guide.